what does a new paradigm of love relationship look like?


Meet Joe.

Joe Paulicivic is an international speaker; teaching classes & workshops to thousands of people around the world. Not too long ago he honed his speaking and leadership skills serving as President of San Clemente Toastmasters.

In 2010, he was honored to receive an international Humanitarian of the Year Award  by Wedding and Portrait Photographers International (WPPI) for work he did teaching orphans in Russia to communicate with cameras. This work was celebrated in Rangefinder magazine. 

Joe is a 7 on the Enneagram (The Adventurer), so it’s not surprising that he spends his free time riding his skateboard and playing with children (of all ages!) He is known among his family and friends as, “The Mayor of Funville.” Oh, and he loves to give hugs – sometimes uncomfortably long ones…

Meet Denise.

Denise Darlene has literally been advising people since she could talk. Admittedly, advice from a toddler, teen, or twenty-something perhaps wasn’t always the best advice, but a girl has to start somewhere! Through the trials and tribulations of her own life, she learned the lessons and course corrected in ways that resulted in a pretty awesome life – racking up some serious accomplishments and education along the way. Her time as a spiritual guide, ordained minister, certified Transformational Life Coach, and a retired nurse gave her a unique perspective to create an actionable plan for the path to happiness – which she shares in her #1 bestselling book Real Passion Revolution: 10 Secret Ingredients for Healed, Healthy, Happy Relationships.

Denise is a 2 on the Enneagram (The Helper), so she’s on a mission to help as many people find their own path to happiness as she can. Her best-selling book was the first step on that mission.



From 2/14/14 to 11/10/18 (1,730 days), Joe and Denise intentionally pressed the “Pause Button” on Life - slowing way down and living a minimalistic life in search of deep, transformative, spiritual truth. They traveled America in their motorhome as a “Sanctuary” for healing - literally loving their neighbors as themselves. Practicing what they (quietly) preach, they teach and model the New Paradigm of Love lifestyle while making friends and influencing communities wherever Spirit leads them. The profound result of investing nearly 16 hours a day for 5 years soaking in the wisdom of these Masters - has gained them proficient insight to correctly reframe conflict in relationships as the direct path to healing. In other words: the person you are most troubled by - is the invitation/the gift for your healing. They shine bright because of this path – and they are on fire to share this path to happiness with you!


During their years on the road, Joe and Denise have been drawn to a community of misfits - much like themselves - who are a rebellious bunch of wonderful people who call themselves “Dirty Kids”. You may have seen these gypsy travelers in your city parks or on the streets with their backpacks and puppies, hitchhiking or jumping trains to travel to their next adventure. Joe and Denise have great compassion for those who are on this path as they have come to understand that this radical lifestyle is usually the result of feeling rejected or unloved. They are committed to letting these beautiful souls know that they are not garbage to be thrown out. They show up to remind the Dirty Kids that they do matter - because they are part of a bigger kind of family: the family of humanity. Joe and Denise are determined to give these misunderstood kids the love and support they desperately need.

As an avid student of personal growth and Spiritual teaching, I know of no other source of teaching and inspiration that has made a bigger impact on our relationship and growth together than the teachings of Joe and Denise.
— Aaron Ball - CEO Ballpoint Communications Group